At a little past the 5min mark in the video you mention that "people that are truly into swinging may not want single guys", that means that single guys are not truly into singing? That is part of the problem single guys have. What about a guy like myself that is single now and still in the lifestyle. I am not single by choice, my wife passed away from cancer a couple years back. But now as a single gentleman I am looked at as not part of the lifestyle in some peoples eyes. Just because I cannot find another partner right now, should not mean that I am excluded. Yes some couples do not want a single guy, but some of us are nice guys just with a bad circumstance for being single.